Being a person of credibility, a person of integrity, a person whose well-liked by many, doesn't mean being a people pleaser. If you constantly live up to people's opinions, people's standards, then you'll never have a fixed principle to follow. Because everyone has different thoughts and opinions. If 5 people have the same thinking, then 4 people are redundant. So i say, i'd live for the audience of one& i'd follow the best standard. - the bible (: